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Difficult conversation / set boundaries

Formulate clear, friendly but firm messages.

5 prompts in this category

Say no (super short)

When you want to say no in 2 sentences.

Write a super short no to [request].
Tone: friendly but clear.
Max 40 words.
End with an alternative: [alternative].
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Say no (warm but clear)

Decline without conflict and offer an alternative.

Write a short message where I say no to [request].

I want to:
- be friendly but clear
- keep the relationship
- offer an alternative: [alternative]

Max 80 words.
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Feedback (situation → behavior → impact → request)

Factual feedback that feels safe to send.

Help me write feedback using the model:
- Situation
- Behavior
- Impact
- Request

Facts (stick to facts):
[situation]

Tone: [soft / neutral / direct]. Max 120 words.
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Ask for clarity (reduce misunderstandings)

Get clear answers with 3 concrete questions.

Write a short message where I ask for clarity about [uncertainty].

Requirements:
- friendly tone
- ask 3 concrete questions
- ask for a deadline/time

Max 90 words.
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Push back on scope (in a good way)

When someone wants to add more than you can handle.

Write a message where I say that [proposal] will be hard to finish, and suggest a simpler version.

Include:
- 1 sentence: why (capacity/deadline)
- 2 options: (A) simpler version, (B) move deadline
Tone: professional
Max 110 words.
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